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Aug. 30, 2023

Self-Delusions: Lies We Tell Ourselves

Do you harbor an illusion of control? Or perhaps you feel like an imposter, despite your proven competence? Are you aware of the stories you tell yourself that might not be entirely true, and yet, they shape your reality? These are the self-delusions we unravel in this episode of Live…

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Aug. 28, 2023

Self-Delusions: Lies We Tell Ourselves

Do you harbor an illusion of control? Or perhaps you feel like an imposter, despite your proven competence? Are you aware of the stories you tell yourself that might not be entirely true, and yet, they shape your reality? These are the self-delusions we unravel in this episode of Live…

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Aug. 23, 2023

Contrary Voices and the Chilling Effect

There's a pernicious trend in society, punishing the free expression of contrary ideas. Using a recent incident from academia, Craig discusses the dangers silencing free expression poses for a free society. Drawing insights from John Stuart Mill's essay on liberty of thought and discussion, he explores the grave implications of…

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Aug. 21, 2023

Contrary Voices and the Chilling Effect

There's a pernicious trend in society, punishing the free expression of contrary ideas. Using a recent incident from academia, Craig discusses the dangers silencing free expression poses for a free society. Drawing insights from John Stuart Mill's essay on liberty of thought and discussion, he explores the grave implications of…

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Aug. 16, 2023

When To Eat The Marshmallow: Finding the Golden Mean In Self-Discipline

Ever thought about whether you're going too far with your self-discipline? Today's episode grapples with the issue of finding the delicate balance between self-restraint and indulgence, between being too strict or too lenient with oneself. Craig shares personal anecdotes, thoughts, and lessons learned from years of experience in trying to…

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Aug. 14, 2023

When To Eat the Marshmallow: Finding the Golden Mean of Self-Discipline

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Aug. 9, 2023

Paradox of Guilt

What if guilt, an emotion that often makes us squirm, could instead be a tool for personal growth and happiness? This episode of Live Well and Flourish is dedicated to transforming our perceptions of guilt, and employing it as a signal for reflection, self-improvement and ultimately, leading a life that…

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Aug. 7, 2023

The Paradox Of Guilt

What if guilt, an emotion that often makes us squirm, could instead be a tool for personal growth and happiness? This episode of Live Well and Flourish is dedicated to transforming our perceptions of guilt, and employing it as a signal for reflection, self-improvement and ultimately, leading a life that…

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Aug. 2, 2023

Self-Awareness: The Ultimate Life "Hack"

Ever wondered what the secret to living a flourishing life is? The answer lies within you, in the form of self-awareness. Join me, Craig Van Slyke, as we untangle the web of self-awareness and how it irrevocably links to personal excellence and overall well-being. We'll explore how an honest assessment…

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July 31, 2023

Self-Awareness: The Ultimate Life "Hack"

Ever wondered what the secret to living a flourishing life is? The answer lies within you, in the form of self-awareness. Join me, Craig Van Slyke, as we untangle the web of self-awareness and how it irrevocably links to personal excellence and overall well-being. We'll explore how an honest assessment…

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July 27, 2023

The Paradox of Constraints

Ever wondered how limitations could actually set you free? Join me, Craig Van Slyke, as I reveal the surprising connection between constraints and creativity. I'll take you on an engaging journey, from the witty realm of improv comedy to the inventive 'Cajun engineering', proving how limitations can ignite innovation and…

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July 24, 2023

The Paradox of Constraints: How Constraints Lead to Cleverness and Creativity

Ever wondered how limitations could actually set you free? Join me, Craig Van Slyke, as I reveal the surprising connection between constraints and creativity. I'll take you on an engaging journey, from the witty realm of improv comedy to the inventive 'Cajun engineering', proving how limitations can ignite innovation and…

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July 23, 2023

The Problem of Multiple Identities

Ever felt overwhelmed juggling your various identities in different settings? You're not alone. Join me as I share my personal experience navigating this challenging aspect of life, exploring the differences between personal and social identities, and how mastering the art of switching between them can lead to a more flourishing…

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July 17, 2023

The Problem of Multiple Identities and Emotional Labor

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July 16, 2023

The Slippery Slope of Just This Once

Are you unknowingly making it harder to live an excellent life? In this thought-provoking episode of Live Well and Flourish, Craig discusses the unfortunate trend of students using AI tools like ChatGPT to cheat on their papers and then lying about it when caught. He urges you to consider the…

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July 10, 2023

The Slippery Slope of Just This Once (5MF)

Are you unknowingly making it harder to live an excellent life? In this thought-provoking episode of Live Well and Flourish, Craig discusses the unfortunate trend of students using AI tools like ChatGPT to cheat on their papers and then lying about it when caught. He urges you to consider the…

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July 3, 2023

The Subtle Art Of Saying No

Do you find yourself constantly agreeing to tasks and requests, even when you're already swamped? It's time to break this habit and master the art of saying no gracefully and effectively. We're here to explore the reasons behind this common challenge – from the fear of damaging relationships and reputations,…

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June 26, 2023

Coping With Stress By Taking Control

Diving into the turbulent waters of stress and control, Craig shares transformative insights in this episode of "Live Well and Flourish". Through personal stories, he illustrates how the daunting feeling of being out of control can amplify stress. Craig suggests a manageable solution: distinguishing what's within your control and what…

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June 26, 2023

Coping With Stress By Taking Control (5MF)

Diving into the turbulent waters of stress and control, Craig shares transformative insights in this episode of "Live Well and Flourish". Through personal stories, he illustrates how the daunting feeling of being out of control can amplify stress. Craig suggests a manageable solution: distinguishing what's within your control and what…

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June 19, 2023

The Vicious Cycle of Stress and Anger

Stress and anger mutually reinforce each other in a vicious cycle of negative emotion. Being stressed makes you more prone to anger and the emotional labor of dealing with anger makes you more stressed. In this episode, Craig discusses this vicious cycle and what you can do to prevent it.…

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June 19, 2023

The Vicious Circle of Stress and Anger

Stress and anger mutually reinforce each other in a vicious cycle of negative emotion. Being stressed makes you more prone to anger and the emotional labor of dealing with anger makes you more stressed. In this episode, Craig discusses this vicious cycle and what you can do to prevent it.…

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June 15, 2023

The Duality of Venting

We all feel the need to vent sometimes, we just need to share our negative emotions with someone. Although venting is often seen as a maladaptive response to stress, it can hold surprising benefits in some situations. Craig explores this duality, highlighting the potential pitfalls of rumination and negative feedback…

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June 12, 2023

The Duality of Venting

We all feel the need to vent sometimes, we just need to share our negative emotions with someone. Although venting is often seen as a maladaptive response to stress, it can hold surprising benefits in some situations. Craig explores this duality, highlighting the potential pitfalls of rumination and negative feedback…

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June 12, 2023

The Duality of Venting to Cope with Stress (5MF)

We all feel the need to vent sometimes, we just need to share our negative emotions with someone. Although venting is often seen as a maladaptive response to stress, it can hold surprising benefits in some situations. Craig explores this duality, highlighting the potential pitfalls of rumination and negative feedback…

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