Pursuing the Excellent Life

Episodes

Incivility and Your Flourishing
Sept. 28, 2022

Incivility and Your Flourishing

Incivility is harmful to your flourishing, whether you're the one acting with incivility or just exposed to excess incivility. In this episode, Craig discusses why this is so, and offers some insights on how to reduce incivil...
The Futility of Incivility
Sept. 14, 2022

The Futility of Incivility

Incivility abounds in today's social media, sound bite driven world. Recently, Craig attended a major conference during which a controversy erupted, which led to an unfortunate, but predictable Twitter storm of incivility. In...
Dealing with Moral Dilemmas
Aug. 31, 2022

Dealing with Moral Dilemmas

Moral dilemmas are an inevitable part of life ... you're going to face decisions that offer no fully satisfying alternatives. In this episode, Craig is joined by practical philosopher, Dr. Andrea Christelle, to discuss how we...
Moral Dilemmas and the Death of a Pup
Aug. 17, 2022

Moral Dilemmas and the Death of a Pup

Sometimes life brings us a decision for which there is no clear moral choice. In this episode of Live Well and Flourish, practical philosopher Dr. Andrea Christelle, co-founder of Sedona Philosophy Experience and I discuss mo...
COVID and Me
Aug. 3, 2022

COVID and Me

COVID finally caught up to Craig. But, there's knowledge to be had in every experience. In this episode of Live Well and Flourish, Craig discusses what he learned from his thankfully brief bout with COVID-19. Links Live Well ...
In Times of Trouble
July 20, 2022

In Times of Trouble

Difficult times are an inevitable part of life; you are going to face times of trouble. In this episode, Craig discusses how applying a simple idea from Stoicism helped him get through an especially troubling time, the illnes...
Taking Control of Your Life
July 6, 2022

Taking Control of Your Life

When you have a low sense of personal control, you suffer increased stress, anxiety, depression and negative mood. Your physical health also suffers. In this episode of Live Well and Flourish, Craig discusses the effects of p...
The Problem with Generalizations
June 22, 2022

The Problem with Generalizations

Generalizations help us make sense of a complex world; generalizing is a fundamental human function. Most of the time, our generalizations serve us well. But, when we make generalizations errors, bad things happen, such as st...
The Cage of Your Assumptions
June 8, 2022

The Cage of Your Assumptions

Assumptions are necessary for getting through the complexity of life. However, some of our assumptions, when untested, can hinder flourishing. In this episode, Craig discusses assumptions, how they're formed, why they're so p...
Controlling Your Emotions through Emotional Regulation
May 25, 2022

Controlling Your Emotions through Emotional Regulation

Being able to control your emotions to minimize unnecessary suffering, and to maximize positive feelings is important to your flourishing. In this episode, Craig discusses emotional regulation and provides some strategies for...
Emotional Contagion
May 11, 2022

Emotional Contagion

Emotions, like viruses, can be contagious. In this episode, Craig discusses emotional contagion and its effects, and offers some advice on how to use emotional contagion to make the world a little better. Live Well and Flouri...
The Power of Small Things: The Small Wins Strategy of Change
April 27, 2022

The Power of Small Things: The Small Wins Strategy of Change

In this episode of Live Well and Flourish, Craig discusses the small wins strategy of change, which involves breaking big changes into a series of smaller changes such that each of the small changes has its own value. This is...
The Power of Small Things: The Between Times
April 13, 2022

The Power of Small Things: The Between Times

We mark the progress of our lives through big events, but most of life occurs in the between times, the times that lie between the big events. In this episode, Craig discusses the importance of the small events that occur bet...
The Power of Small Things: Micro-Kindness
March 30, 2022

The Power of Small Things: Micro-Kindness

Do you want to make the world a better place? Try a little kindness. In this episode, Craig discusses the power of micro-kindness, small acts of kindness, which are small sincere and voluntary acts and attitudes, intentional ...
Practice, Habit and Being
March 16, 2022

Practice, Habit and Being

In the final episode of the mini-series on Self-Leadership, Craig discusses Aristotle's practice-habit-being method of developing virtue. He focuses on the role of habit, and describes how habits are built and broken. Listen ...
Living Well through Reflection
March 2, 2022

Living Well through Reflection

The world is often a chaotic, puzzling place. Reflection is how we can make sense of the world and our place in it. As the Jesuits at Boston College put it, “Reflection is the way we discover and compose the meaning of our ex...
Living Well Through Mindfulness
Feb. 16, 2022

Living Well Through Mindfulness

Do you ever feel like you’re going through life on autopilot? Most of us have, but life doesn’t have to be that way. Join Craig as he discusses mindfulness and its benefits. Mindfulness is an active, conscious process where ...
Living a Life of Purpose
Feb. 2, 2022

Living a Life of Purpose

Do you have a purpose in life? And do you know the difference between purpose and goals? In this episode you’ll learn how purpose is an elemental foundation to guiding your life and flourishing, as well as a means for having ...
Living Well Through Self-Leadership
Jan. 19, 2022

Living Well Through Self-Leadership

How much would your life improve if you could take more control over yourself and your behaviors? In this episode you’ll learn how to take charge of your life through self-leadership. Despite the influence of others, you and ...
Benjamin Franklin's Method of Self-Improvement
Jan. 5, 2022

Benjamin Franklin's Method of Self-Improvement

Whether you realize it or not, who you are is under your control. You get to decide the sort of person you are and the virtues you exhibit. In this episode, I discuss Benjamin Franklin's "... bold and arduous project of arriv...
Benefits of Gratitude
Dec. 22, 2021

Benefits of Gratitude

Cicero called gratitude not only the greatest, but also the parent of all other virtues. Psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky, a leading researcher on happiness, notes that gratitude can act as an antidote for negative emotions. Ac...
Grief and gratitude
Dec. 8, 2021

Grief and gratitude

Grief comes from loss. But gratitude should accompany grief. Listen as Craig reflects on the puzzling relationship between grief and gratitude, and how a deeper understanding of how they interact can help you deal with grief,...
Pleasure and Utility
Nov. 24, 2021

Pleasure and Utility

We often hear of utility, usually as it relates to economics or usefulness. But there is a different view of utility, one that focuses on pleasure. In this episode, Andrea and Craig discuss this view of utility as pleasure, w...
Overcoming Negativity Bias
Nov. 10, 2021

Overcoming Negativity Bias

Humans are hardwired to pay more attention to negative events than positive events. This proclivity is known as the negativity bias. Thankfully, a large number of good events can overcome the effects of a small number of bad...